Today I’m sharing a zine about unfinished threads, both literal and emotional. As part of that, I get into the weeds a bit with my divorce and how I’ve been thinking about my ex-husband lately. I ask questions about how much what I did in the past matters in the moment, and how much what held me once still holds now.
It’s tender! I almost kept it behind the paywall. But I also think a lot of us carry the heart of it: the ache of leaving something unfinished, and making the choice to pick it back up (or not).
So I’m sharing my reflection publicly and thank you for reading it with care.
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I made a playlist for the strange work of letting go.
Oh man. Thank you for this. You put into words something I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about. ♥️
I feel this way too. I often wonder what I would do, or what HE would do, if I ran into my ex unexpectedly. We haven't seen each other or communicated for exactly 10 years this month. But those 11+ years before that of friendship and care feel -- like they're forgotten in a bag on the floor of a closet somewhere. You're spot on, Lindsey. Thank you for sharing this.